Jeff Usher is Be There Dad. He became known as “Coach Jeff” during his 15 years of coaching soccer and basketball in a faith-based recreational league, teaching Sunday school and leading other child focused activities. Jeff is the founder of Be There Dad and the author of two books, Be There Dad and Take Them by the Hand. While he works as a lawyer to make a living; supporting children by leading and guiding their dads has become his passion in life. He has been happily married for over 30 years and has two grown children.

Mother’s Day

The Sun Will Rise In Castaway Tom Hanks stars as a FedEx manager who spends four years on a deserted island when his plane crashes. After he is rescued, he confides in his best friend how the picture and thoughts of his girlfriend [who he intends to marry] sustained him and helped him to survive.…

Recognition

As we approach the end of the school year, there will soon be opportunities for measurements, awards, and recognition. Grades, test scores, athletic letters, music awards, best this and outstanding that. I am troubled by recent debates which seem to be in conflict. On the one hand, there are those folks who believe we should…

That We Play

The film, We Are Marshall tells the story of the tragic plane crash that killed almost all the members of Marshall University’s football team in the fall of 1970. The movie focuses on the following year when the school, the coaches and the community struggled to rebuild from the ashes and carry on. Some Inspiration…

Let’s Do Something

A Parable   A farmer lived by himself on a distant rural road. News came that a terrible rain storm was headed toward him with the likelihood of flooding.  The  local authorities suggested all residents in the area evacuate to higher ground. The farmer said to himself, I am not worried about rain or floods, my…

Angels Among Us

Recently I had the unexpected opportunity to use the services of our local emergency room and hospital. I actually had a long list of tests and procedures performed and slept in a hospital bed.  Although my symptoms and condition gave us cause to be nervous, I have been fully released and the impact will not…

Holding Hands

Recently, I shared a copy of my book, Take Them by the Hand with an old friend.  Our conversation reminded me of a chapter that I think is particularly relevant in our world today.  Sometimes we need to reflect on the past in order to enhance our perspective for the future.  This excerpt from my…

A Rose

Recently, on PBS I watched a “Brief but Spectacular” moment about a woman named Rose who had been the store manager of a small town hardware store for some thirty years. Responding to how she had been able to help customers solve problems and fix things, she explained that her parents had instilled in her…

My Thanksgiving Prayer

Each Thanksgiving, while it is a time to give thanks for all the blessings which have been bestowed on me in the past year, I like to pray for those blessings that I hope will be forthcoming in the next twelve months as well. Our Bride, One Path In the last week, I was fortunate…